Sexual foreplay with your partner

Subscribe Now-. What would you like me to add to the foreplay repertoire? Never assume you know everything about your partner and their needs. Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage? Are you there? Talk it up!

But maybe it's time we stop thinking about it in such an old-school way. Don't just zero in on her genitals. But WTF qualifies as psychological excitement? When you're flirting or sexting with your partner, let them know exactly what you find attractive about them, advises Kerner. When in doubt, just come right out and ask what she likes during sex. When it's time to move into the bedroom, don't forget that lube is basically your BFF. Hold each one between your thumb and forefinger and massage it, working your way up and down.

Foreplay should help you turn off your stressors and turn on your—well, just straight-up turn you on. Giving in totally to the fantasy made for the best sex; I think the anticipation of it all is what was really hot about it. Lather each other up with soap and water, then move into the bedroom when you're ready to undo all that cleanliness. He adds that simply "having fun and doing things that are exciting to each other" can be a form of foreplay. Today's Top Stories.